For Guys

The P-Spot

Water-based lubes are ideal for men who want to experiment with a prostate stimulator, butt plug or dildo since they’re compatible with all materials.

There are a lot of myths and misconceptions when it comes to straight men and anal play. If you need an excuse to request a prostate massage, research suggests that it may reduce the risk of prostate cancer by 30%.

You or your partner can stimulate the prostate using a toy, fingers or a dildo. Ideally, the object needs to reach 3 to 4 inches inside the rectum to stimulate the fleshy plum-sized gland, located behind the bladder.

A water based lube lets you experiment with a variety of implements as you discover your preferred pace.


It’s easier to locate the prostate when you’re fully aroused due to increased blood flow. Experiment with deep circular or come-hither motions as well as indirect thrusting to see what works best for you.


Water based lubricants work with all types of condoms and toys, including beginner-friendly silicone.


These lubes tend to dry out more quickly, so you may need to reapply the product.

You Should Know

The quality of water-based lubes varies widely. For enhanced lubrication, look for a lubricant that specially formulated for anal.